In my hoarding confession post, I mentioned reaching a season where you feel it’s time to let go.
My lovely husband and I have been discussing this regarding the fact that we moved some things from our old house to our current house and yet have never opened/touched in the entire time we’ve been married.
They are still in their original packing boxes.
In August, with some free time on our hands, we started releasing some of them:
- 3 matte lip glosses: Made my lips feel like they were covered in dried clay. I sent some pictures of me wearing them to my sister and she basically responded with “What were you thinking with that hideous third shade?!😂 ”
Er, that I am a fancy woman who looks as glamourous as that Youtube influencer?
She was right – it didn’t suit me at all! 🤣
- 2 dresses: No more fancy outings for me now I’m an adult!
Also, they didn’t fit anymore.
- 2 pairs of shoes: Beautiful shoes with heels I can’t walk in anymore: adios!
- 5 baby food pouches: we were passed these on but the Hatchling absolutely refuses to eat ‘lumpy’ textured food (we’ve thrown out about 5 before we officially gave up) so I took them to our local community fridge, hoping they could be of use to someone before they expired.
- 2 tins of green lentils: again, passed on to us (sigh) but I don’t like them and neither does my other half. Community fridge (they were already some green lentil tins in there!)
- 1 fan: I bought this during ye old heatwave of late July and it promptly stopped working and then lumped around the house like an insoucient squatter. Despite the receipt somehow disappearing into thin air (I highly suspect that the Hatchling ate it), they allowed me to exhange it.
I went for fudge and Dutch caramel waffles and have absolutely no regrets.
- 1 Baby swimsuit: Again, a panic purchase during the heatwave for the Hatchling only to realise 1) I’d bought two of the same size; why? Children grow so fast and 2) I didn’t really like this one anyway. Back it went before the time in the receipt ran out and I was stuck with reselling it.
- New summer dress: bought online and thought (hoped) I might like it. I did not and neither did anyone else, but it spent a frighteningly long time in my cupboard before I remembered to return it so I’m calling it a win.
- Guitar & case: Although these weren’t originally mine, I’d been hoarding it in case, I/the Hatchling/an epheremal being decided to take up the guitar. It went within the hour of my posting it on a local Facebook group.
- 20 Baby items: We have a new addition to the family and so were really excited to pass on (and back) some muslins, blankets and bits.
- Some cladding pieces: we’re (continually) in the process of refurbishing our house and had some left over. I didn’t want it putting in the bin or taking to the tip because it was brand new, unused and seemed like such a waste and so bad for the environment! Fortunately, my father-in-law happily took it off our hands.
- 3 books: The library I wanted for myself as an adult when I was 13 is no longer the actual library I want now that I’m an adult. I decided I’d outgrown two books and someone else could have them. One of the other books has been passed on to another family member for information purposes…
- 2 tops: I bought them for an event (from a charity shop) and ended up wearing neither. Back to a charity shop they go…
- A games console and a stack of games (about 20): Another “but we might want to….in the future!” hoard. Having played vintage games in gaming cafés, I think this is unlikely.
What can I say – I like good graphics, no glitches and an engaging story line. Just like with the book, my tastes will evolve and change and I need to leave space for that.
Use it Up Club:
These are things that would be hard for me to sell or give away (mainly things that have been used, like beauty products). So far, nothing to report so far but I have a few things that I’m working on at the moment…
Around 71-75 items decluttered this month! I didn’t really think of August as a declutter heavy month but that feels like a lot of stuff – is that just me that feels that way?
£87.57 made altogether from that lot up there: £52.07 was made from selling some (though that includs the postage costs paid) and £35.50 from returns. The returns definitely felt more satisfying than the selling – far less effort!
…but it also makes me think that summer really reduces my impulse control (“I need it now because it’s so hot/summer might end in a day!”) and that’s why I had as many returns to do as I did.
When I get really focused on something, I rarely look back.
This is great for motivation and perseverance purposes but rubbish for allowing me to take stock of how far I – and we – have come.
I’m already writing my list of things I want to get rid of this month because priorities.
But lately, we’ve had family over to stay and even they’ve commented on how much clearer and breezier our house feels.
It feels good to know our efforts are making a difference.
Things are starting to feel more efficient in general and I think this is spurring us on to keep going, as well as notice the areas that we’ll need to focus on next (drawers, urgh).
Decluttering not only allows us to make space but also to find space for what we already have.
It also minimises the amount of things a very mobile Hatchling can potentially shove in their mouth O_O
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